The things happened in this weekend gave me an idea that I could control my temper much well than before. I used to be an irritable person in front of my daddy. Although I am very close with my beloved father, our conversation sometimes ended in my anger. I know it's not quite appropriate to say so as a daughter, but I want to express it honestly. Daddy always has an ability to make the one whom he talks with into a bad mood in an invisible way, especially in front of his family. It's the common feeling what mommy and I have.
That day, when I was singing songs in KTV with my friends happily, daddy called me frequently. At first, the interruption of him was not a big deal for me that I knew he was just worrying about me. But my mood got worse and worse as I answered his phone for 10 times. My singing broke off by the phone calls that I couldn’t but to go out and answer it. When I went back to the KTV room, my songs certainly been skipped by others. Eventually, I lost a lot of chances to sing my favorite songs and all my friends were tired of his persistantly phone calls. Usually, I would refuse to answer his phone again to indicate my anger or talk to him in bad manners. But this time, I calmed myself down and talked to him in temper. Trying hardly and demand him to be more considerable next time.
Although mommy always irritated by daddy in such things as well, she would blame me at first for the way I talked to daddy whenever I got mad by him. This time, I changed my way and tried to discuss it with daddy gently, mommy not only agreed with me but also requested daddy never be a chatter person again that he would interfere with many people. I was astonished by these changes and made my mind to calm myself down at first whenever I got mad. It seems that the result would be more perfect and more peaceful !
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